As a man—when you say you “really” want something,
You orient everything in your life towards it.
You shift your priorities.
You do the work.
You match your actions to your words.
And eventually you get what you want.
A man keeps his word.
A man is reliable.
A man is steadfast.
These qualities attract a woman because she lacks them.
A woman flakes.
A woman’s words hardly matches her actions.